SOLUTION Focused Therapeutic Coaching To Empower You During Divorce and Separation

Expert therapeutic coaching to heal, empower & embrace your future. I’ve helped over 1,000 women in 12 years turn heartache into happiness, confusion into clarity, anxiety into peace & safety.

Let me help you to step confidently into
your next chapter.

Are you newly separated or going through a painful divorce?

Overwhelmed by intense emotions, worried about your children, or struggling to figure out how to co-parent? Confused by the legal process, fearful of the costs, and drowning in conflicting advice from friends and family? Maybe you're questioning if you'll ever truly heal, move forward, or find happiness again.

As a therapist, divorce coach, mother, and two-time divorcee now happily engaged, I understand your pain. I’ve walked this road and know how challenging it is.

I offer a compassionate, confidential space, along with expert emotional guidance, to help you find clarity, strength, and hope during this difficult time. You don’t have to face this alone—let’s work together to empower your next chapter.

IS THIS YOU?

* Feeling completely overwhelmed—emotionally, mentally, and physically drained.
* Lost, angry, heartbroken, and unsure of what your future holds.
* Devastated by the sudden end of your marriage, betrayal, or a partner leaving without warning.
* Constantly worrying about finances and how you'll manage everything on your own.
* Obsessing over your ex, easily triggered by every message or email.
* Feeling anxious about meeting with your lawyer, attending mediation, or facing your ex.
* Dealing with deep trust issues, rejection, abandonment, or emotional trauma from a narcissistic or abusive relationship.
* Struggling to communicate with your ex about your children, finances, or the divorce.
* Experiencing issues around trust, rejection, abandonment and emotional trauma from narcissistic and/or abusive relationships.
* Nervous about the idea of finding love again, dating, and what future relationships might look like..

HOW I SUPPORT MY CLIENTS

* Provide simple, effective tools to regulate your nervous system, helping you release anxiety, stress, anger, and fear, and return to a place of calm within yourself.
* Offer mental and emotional support to quiet overthinking and release the grip of regrets, fears, and obsessive thoughts.
* Guide you through transformational processes to let go, heal, and fully release your partner and the marriage.
* Equip you with emotional tools to manage anxiety and confidently prepare for meetings with lawyers, mediators, or your ex.
* Teach communication strategies to help you respond thoughtfully, minimize conflict, and reduce stress.
* Offer guidance on co-parenting plans and navigating childcare with ease.
* Provide practical strategies to manage your finances and assess future needs for both you and your family.
* Help you build a deep sense of worthiness, self-love and self-compassion so you can get clear on what you want in future relationships.

“I was absolutely broken and felt my life was over when separating from my husband of 32 years. Maxine has been an amazing coach and her loving support has helped me to recover and rebuild my life.”
— Pauline, UK

My Services

I provide Solution Focused Therapeutic Divorce Coaching - rooted in transpersonal psychotherapy & counselling. This means I’m skilled to work on 5 levels of transformation. Mental, Emotional, Unconscious, Somatic (how you hold emotions in your body), and Behavioural. I am trauma informed and the service I provide is highly transformational and healing.

  • This is a 3 hour breakthrough program for anyone who has discovered a affair, betrayal or partner has left unexpectedly. One session of two hours, with two 30 minute follow up calls. I provide practical tools to process emotions, get clarity on what you want and a plan to move forward.

  • Programs range from 3, 6 and 9 months. Depending on the level of support you require. Often we would start with weekly sessions, and then move to bi-weekly. Programs can include WhatsApp support. All programs include an on-line resource hub.

  • This is a flexible voice and message coaching via Whats'App. Unlimited access to me Monday-Friday (9-5pm). This service is ideal if 60 minute therapeutic sessions are impractical for you. This is ideal for busy professionals and working mothers.

  • This is a support community, with access to online resources and a weekly group session with me, via a private platform. Ideal if you are concerned about your finances.

Hi! I’m Maxine

I've been where you are—twice. The first time was in my 30s, with no kids, when I walked away from a man I loved, knowing in my heart that the marriage was a mistake. The second time, I discovered my husband, the father of my young children and the love of my life, was having an affair.

In 2010, divorce coaches didn’t exist, and I deeply wish they had. Despite being a relationship coach with a background in psychotherapy, counseling, and NLP, I was devastated and couldn’t find the right help. The breakup triggered unresolved childhood trauma, and I was overwhelmed by feelings of abandonment, betrayal, and severe anxiety and depression.

These experiences inspired me to focus on empowering and supporting women (and men) through separation and divorce. With the right guidance early in the process, you don’t have to suffer like I did.

“I tried everything, had months of counselling, anti-depressants and nothing worked until I met Maxine. Working with her I was able to process my feelings and make sense of my divorce. I have grown, forgiven the people who hurt me and come to a profound understanding of relationships, love and myself.”
— Julia, UK